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Double Trouble

Massachusetts has the highest rate of twin births in the nation. In and around Boston, it feels more like an epidemic. Which has this proud and very, very tired mother of twins wondering: is this a good thing—for anyone?

Cathy Gruetzke-Blais knew her identical twins were a flight risk. At two years old, neither would sit in a shopping cart for more than a few minutes before trying to climb over the side and make a break for it. So on a trip to her local Target one spring day, the desperate Framingham mother strapped a tiny blue harness around each girl’s shoulders, then clipped a leash to their backs, convinced the contraption would thwart any escape attempts…

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The Bostonians Giving Us Hope for the Future

In our darkest times, these locals are shining a light ahead. Four extraordinary tales of resilience, heroism, and transformation when we need it most.

On the morning of Saturday, March 14, Mark Racine received a text: “I need you to call this number.”

The message was from Charlene Briner, Boston Public Schools’ chief of staff. She gave no further information; the number itself was a mystery. But Racine dialed anyway. And after a few rings, he found himself speaking directly with Mayor Marty Walsh.

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Training Our Kids for the Next School Shooter

Whether you know it or not, every school in Massachusetts is preparing children for an attack. What are they telling them? And will the training save kids or just scare the hell out of them (and us)?

My friend’s eight-year-old daughter came home from school recently and bolted into the bathroom. When she came out, her mother asked, “Is everything okay?”

They’d had a safety drill at school that day, her daughter explained, at which they’d been told, among other things, that if an intruder entered the school while they were in the bathroom, they should lock the stall and climb onto the toilet seat so he couldn’t see their feet.

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The death of the school dance

Why did we stop such an important tradition?

THIS MOTHER’S DAY as I celebrate 13 years of motherhood, I’m feeling especially sentimental. My sweet twin boys, so loving and kind, are on the verge of adolescence, meaning we’re in for body odor, acne, and changing voices — and likely some wall-punching and locked doors…

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